Change is a Necessity

The rewards of growing through change are numerous

Hi dear friend

Life is a series of dances, a rhythmic movement from one step to the next, often orchestrated by the music of change, which never ends. We sway and twirl, sometimes gracefully, and at other times we stumble, through the ever changing landscapes of our existence. If there's one thing we've collectively learned from the mad events of the past couple of years, it's that change is not just a constant companion, but a compelling choreographer that shapes our lives in unexpected ways.

I have the kind of personality, that most of the time welcome change in my life. I get easily bored and like to move and dance forward. But gee, did the plandemic jolt me out of my comfort zone and push me onto a dance floor I never thought I’d join. It was as if life put on a new tune, and we were all having to learn the steps as we went into changes we had never experienced before. It totally changed the rhythm of our daily lives.

I see change as a necessity. Just as a caterpillar undergoes the transformation to become a butterfly, we too need change to grow, evolve, and thrive. The challenges posed by the plandemic were reminders of our adaptability as people. Businesses shifted their models, families and friends found creative ways to stay connected and we all changed in some way or another. Change was propelling us forward even when the path ahead seemed super uncertain.

Change is rarely easy. The fear of the unknown and the loss of familiarity can often really trigger us, resulting in uneasy manifesting in various ways, from feeling overwhelmed by new responsibilities, to facing unexpected obstacles.

For example, here is a little analogy. I love to paint abstract acrylics art. But sometimes when I start a new painting, the blank canvas can be so white and daunting. I can see change as like that first splash of paint, which starts as a surprise, but gradually turns into something I truly like. As I go with the flow of it, I sometimes find myself mixing colours I never thought would go together. And then suddenly - voila! There it is! I crafted a vibrant canvas of new experience and some personal growth.

Two Moons

More of my art here.

Change also has a way of revealing aspects of ourselves, that might have remained hidden otherwise. The discomfort of change can force us to go more within, leading us to question who we are and what we truly desire. Through this self-discovery, we may uncover hidden talents, passions, and potential, that lay dormant before the winds of change swept them into the light.

The silver lining of change seems to lie in the lessons it offers. We are pushed to learn and adapt. Our minds become more flexible as we seek solutions to unfamiliar problems. Change often requires us to draw on our existing knowledge, while also acquiring new skills and in the process open doors to personal growth.

The rewards of growing through change are numerous. Hopefully we come out stronger, more capable, and with a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us. By wholeheartedly accepting big changes, we pave the way for a world that evolves and ultimately soars to new heights.

I have had a silver ring on my finger for many years, that’s says; “This too shall pass”. This is to remind me that there is nothing in the world that is permanent, or that does not change, nor come to an end.  When things go wrong and we are sad, remember that “this too shall pass”. When things go well and we are happy and content, remember that it’s transitory and “this too shall pass”. So when happiness is right around the corner and you are happy, make the most of it and don’t take it for granted. The only real constant in life is Change. And that “this too shall pass”, good and bad.

Until next week. Stay grateful and curious.

Much loves,

Kim